Or at least *acts* like one for improvisation. I was at a great gender and improv workshop with both male and female improvisers this week. The advanced class had one main goal: to help men and women expand their repertoires of characters by playing opposite their gender for the entire workshop. There were lots of funny, gut-busting a-ha moments watching men and women stretch their comfort zones.
One of the most interesting takeaways was that while a good opposite gender character starts with a stereotype – a walk or accent, for instance – it doesn’t stay there. For me to play a man, for example, it’s not enough to have a gruff voice or male stance. It’s learning how to absorb and take on male *behavior* in a way that is real and not over the top. That is no easy task for someone living every day in a female body. For a two-person golf scene, I played a male character along with another female improviser also playing a male character (Shakespeare would be confused but delighted)! The male improvisers would “ding” if we got a behavior right and “duck call” when we got it wrong (something men wouldn’t do). That scene was a big moment of learning for both of us ladies. The entire several minutes we said very few words. We slowed down our talk, our movements, and our looks at each other. We focused on how men would hold and swing a golf club. We one-upped each other about golf. Men say less, they say it more slowly, and they take their time. And while it felt too slow at times for my female sensibility, it hit just right for the male improvisers watching who guided me through my “male tour” with their feedback. Slowing things down in the scene (talking, walking, looks, demeanor and action/movement) made the characters more believably “male.”
Another important reminder was that great gender characters don’t have be over the top. In fact, the best ones aren’t. I honored how men really behave in that scene without taking on too many stereotypes and taking them too far. And as improvisers, we want to be mindful of stereotypes. Simultaneously, stereotypes are inevitably your starting point when you are trying to play the opposite sex because you lack first-hand experience. Still, you build on it by adding layers. One consistent behavior (not talking much, for example, or scratching my “beard”) in tandem with a male walk and voice is enough to play a good male character according to my male judges.
Another great reminder here is that the difference between really good and really great improvisation is in the details. Improvisers know this. Yet, it’s easy to forget when playing the opposite sex. We’re too focused on the larger gender “markers.” When my female colleague playing a man delicately put down the golf bag as a woman would, for example, the men “duck called” very loudly. She then corrected her approach, and dropped it like a guy would drop a gym bag – there was nothing gentle about it. The guys howled and dinged in approval. Even the little mannerisms – the way we hold things, the way we flick a wrist or let arms hang at the side, or the way we cast a glance – can be powerful metadata to communicate gender.
Of course, the guys had their turn playing ladies and it was hilarious. One of the male improvisers applying lipstick looked like he was outlining his lips with a power drill. He received a big “duck call!” He then shifted to a dainty application, even putting the cap back on the tube and re-inserting into his purse. He received big dings from the ladies. Small little details make a huge difference. Object work always matters. It’s just more complicated when you’re a guy who has no idea how to really apply lipstick. Creating great gender characters requires improvisers to become astute observers of the mannerisms of the opposite sex (for purely research purposes, of course)!
The guys also gleaned that they, too, can honor the opposite gender and avoid playing into too many stereotypes at the same time. While many of the men started out with the same stock of female characters, they discovered that there is an entire range of female behaviors outside the upset mom, the airhead teen, and the giggly girl archetypes (Joseph Campbell would have been intrigued) that also add dimension to the heroine/female protagonist. Ultimately, we all discovered that using stereotypes without refining them takes away from the depth of the character. Nice work, all!
Finally, some of the biggest rewards came from watching status shifts. Women who normally take very female roles (mom, wife, girlfriend, etc.) acted empowered with their male roles. The guys also gleaned insight from having to be the girlfriends and the moms. The guys also walked away with an appreciation that playing a girl in comedy is more than just a high voice, a funny walk, and a wig – the easy and overused “go-to” for any comic who has done it (Martin Lawrence, Tyler Perry, the list goes on). Status, details, and behaviors add the delicious layers that make scenes rich without just turning them into trite comic bits.
Experimenting with gender and status can enrich the improvisers and the scene when the improvisers are committed to honoring the depth of the “opposite sex” characters.
saifali 7:59 pm on February 25, 2011 Permalink |
I dont know how to say this … without sounding puritanical, but really, she needs to work on her stuff.
Nomose 8:13 pm on February 25, 2011 Permalink |
Just wait until I get the karaoke mic tonight!…you’ll be begging for Valentina! =)